A pussy pump is a device that’s placed over the vulva. This includes the clitoris and outer lips. The device is connected to a pump, which, when pressed, will cause the device to create suction. As the device is pumped, the suction becomes stronger. This draws blood to the pussy and makes feelings more intense. How exactly does a vaginal pump work? To understand that, you’ll first need to understand some basics of female anatomy and arousal. A Quick Lesson on Female Anatomy and Arousal There are two terms that are often used interchangeably when describing the female anatomy – vagina and vulva. These terms have distinct meanings, though. The vagina is the internal sex organ. The vulva is the outside part of the female anatomy, and it includes the clitoris, the labia, the vaginal opening, and the urethra. The vaginal pump is placed around the vulva. It does not enter the body. When a female is aroused, blood flow to the vulva and the vagina will increase. This is what causes the clitoris to become engorged and the labia to take on a fuller, puffier appearance. If you’ve ever wondered why your partner responds to your touches differently based on where you are in the process of foreplay and intercourse, this is why. The more aroused, the more blood flow to the area. And the more blood flow there is, the more sensitive she’ll be. This is the idea behind the pussy pump – to draw more blood to the area so as to heighten arousal. The Benefits of Pussy Pumping Let’s take a closer look at the benefits. Increased Sensitivity What’s the number one reason that women use a vaginal pump? For increased sensitivity! Every woman is different when it comes to arousal and sensual sensitivity. While some women may be turned on by the touch of a feather, others may require a more direct stimulation. And even for women who can already get plenty aroused without the use of a sex toy, the device can take your sex life to a whole new level. Just imagine the most intense climax you’ve ever experienced. Now imagine that after you’ve used a vaginal pump to sensitize the area. Your orgasms can be so much stronger than you’ve ever imagined! Improved Foreplay Are you into pleasure denial? Do you like it when your partner takes control? You can experiment with these foreplay techniques, and more, with the help of a pump. The vaginal pump can be used by yourself or your partner. If you prefer to be dominated, though, then hand the pump over to your partner and let them have their fun. You should, of course, communicate to your partner how you’re feeling throughout the experience. But your partner can also use this as a time to learn your physical cues and respond accordingly. The pussy pump additionally acts as a barrier. Just imagine you and your partner are making out, feeling each other up, and your partner is ready to go. What’s hotter than making them wait just a few more minutes to get more intimate? Aesthetic Appeal For many men and women, there’s something appealing about the look of an engorged vulva and clitoris. It signals that you’re aroused, and this in itself can be a huge turn-on for your partner. The Types of Pussy Pumps Are you ready to make your own investment in a vaginal pump? Let’s consider the different kinds of pumps available so you can purchase the right one for you. Simple Pumps If all you want is a basic, no-frills design, then a simple pump is what you’re looking for. A simple pump is just as it sounds — a basic labial pump that looks very similar to an anesthesia face mask. These pumps are often made of silicone, so they’re safe to use and easy to clean. Stimulator Pumps To take it one step further, you can purchase a vaginal pump that has stimulators inside the cup. These stimulators can be silicone tendrils or a similar design that will tickle the vulva as the device is pumped, and the lips and clitoris become engorged. The types of stimulators will vary, though these may include bumps, ribbing, or “spikes.” There are even models with interchangeable “sleeves” so you can change the stimulator or not use one at all. Vibrating Pumps Once you’ve become accustomed to the pussy pump, one way to kick it up a notch is with a vibrating pump. As the name suggests, a vibrating pump uses vibrations and pulses in addition to the regular suctioning of the cup. The vibration is most often delivered via a detachable bullet vibrator within the cup. In many cases, the controls for the bullet vibrator and the pump are separate. Clitoral Pumps A standard pump will be large enough to include both the vulva and the clitoris. There are some women, however, who aren’t interested in vulvar engorgement. In those cases, a clitoral pump is a way to go. A clitoral pump is just as it sounds — it’s a pump that suctions to the clitoris and engorges it in much the same way as a vaginal pump engorges the pussy lips. As you might imagine, this creates a very sensitive-to-the-touch clitoris. And while it may feel slightly uncomfortable at first, the clitoral climax you experience will be out of this world. How to Use a Vaginal Pump: Tips for Beginners Do you want to give a pump a try, but you’re not sure where to begin? The tips below will get you started on the right path. Prep the Area It’s not necessary for you to shave your pussy if you don’t want to. However, a shaved pussy will enable a better seal. If you don’t want to shave, then you may find that trimming the area will at least help to reduce any uncomfortable or painful tugging. Take Your Time Especially during your first few sessions, the goal isn’t how puffy you can get your pussy to become. You should focus on getting used to the device, as well as learning what you like. In the beginning, you should use the pump for short sessions. I’d recommend no more than 10 minutes on your first few uses. You may find that just two or three minutes is enough. Over time, you’ll be able to build up endurance so you can slowly increase the amount of time the pump is applied for. Use Lots of Lube As the suction increases, so too does the friction between the pump and your skin. Lubricant can help to reduce friction so as to make it easier to enjoy yourself. To begin, first apply lube to the rim of the vaginal pump. Use your fingertips to ensure that both sides of the rim – the inside and the outside – are properly lubricated. You can also apply lubricant to the area where the pump will be applied. This is especially helpful if you have sensitive skin, though it’s a good bit of advice to follow for anyone. Pump Slowly at First You’ve got the pump attached to your pussy. Now it’s time to get pumpin’, right? Not so fast! In addition to limiting the amount of time you use the pump, it’s best to limit how often and how intensely you pump the device. If you try to progress too quickly in the beginning, it can make your pussy too sensitive. This can be a major turn-off for beginner users. And if you feel like you’ve gone too far? Use the decompression knob on the side of the hand pump. This will release some of the suction. How to Clean and Care For Your Pussy Pump To ensure your pump stays clean and safe for use, you must clean and store your pump properly after each use. Cleaning your pussy pump is easy: simply wash with mild soap and rinse with warm water. You should then store your pump in a cool, dry place. If placing in a drawer or on a shelf, consider using a cloth bag to protect against dust or buildup. How to Use a Pussy Pump: Solo, or With a Partner Now that you’ve got the basics done let’s look at ways you can use the device in both solo play and with a partner. Solo Did you think that a pump was only good for partner play? Think again! A vaginal pump can take your solo sessions from “good enough” to “WOW!” So, how should you begin? The easiest way to use it by yourself is in missionary position. Lie on your back with your legs relaxed and extended in front of you. Using one hand, place and hold the cup of the pussy pump over your vulva. Hold the pump in your other hand. Once the vaginal pump is in place, lightly compress the pump. This should seal the cup in place. Once the cup is sealed, you can remove your hand from the cup. Continue to pump the device slowly so as to create more suction. You will soon feel a slight tingling sensation that will increase as you pump the device. You can take breaks in between pumps, too. Use this time to explore your body. Tweak your nipples, use an anal vibrator, or whatever else tickles your fancy. Once you’re ready to remove the cup, slowly decompress the pump. Now is when the real fun begins. Your pussy will be very sensitive, so start slow. Use your fingertips to gently glide over your pussy lips and then your clitoris. You can use a vibrator or dildo here for even greater sensation. You can now do your usual solo routine, or mix it up with something new. With a Partner Just as if you were doing it solo, the easiest way to first adhere the cup to your pussy is in missionary position. Lie on your back, hold the cup to your vulva, and then gently squeeze the hand pump. Once the cup is sufficiently suctioned, you can then adjust yourself slightly to get into some deeper foreplay with your partner. The great thing about using the pump with a partner is you can maintain control, or give it over to them entirely. This means allowing your partner to pump the device until your pussy is as engorged and flush as they like. You or your partner can gradually pump the device as you engage in sensual play. Use this time to caress your partner’s body, kiss them, lick them, and tease them. The fact that they want you so badly will make the vaginal pump even more arousing because it’s a barrier that’s in their way. Who doesn’t love denial play? And when it comes to intercourse, an engorged pussy will make it more fun for both you and your partner. With engorged lips and clitoris, every stroke will make it feel like you’re on the brink of orgasm. The longer you pumped, the more intense it will feel. Vaginal Pumps: An Easy Way to Intensify BDSM Play If you’re looking to add something new to your BDSM sessions, then look no further than a pussy pump. A vaginal pump is a device that you or your partner can use to intensify the pleasure and prolong the sweet torture. It’s also a great tool to use in power play. Attach the device to yourself, and then allow your partner to bind your hands. This will give your partner full control over the length of time the pump is used, and the intensity of the pumping. Or you can use it as a chastity belt of sorts. Attach the pump and have your partner watch you pump it yourself. Don’t allow your partner to touch you, but just make them watch. As your pussy becomes fuller and fuller within the pump, your partner will become more aroused. Don’t let them remove until you’re sufficiently aroused and ready to remove it yourself. This will be physically arousing, but also frustrating for your partner. It’s a great introduction to dom/sub roleplay in your relationship. As with anything involving bondage, it’s important to have two things: mutual trust and a safe word. Frequently Asked Questions Do you have questions about pussy pumps? I have the answers. Read on! How Long Should I Pump For? A very common question from beginners is how long to pump for. There’s no magic answer here, but do keep in mind that it’s more fun if you take it slow and build up endurance. If you start off too intensely, it may turn you off from the experience altogether. At first, I would recommend you start with no more than 10 minutes. This will be more than enough time to engorge the vulva and clitoris. As you become accustomed to the intensity, you can increase it in five or ten-minute intervals. The longer you pump, the more intense the sensations. Is There a Maximum Time Limit for Pumping? There’s no hard-and-fast rule when it comes to how long you can safely keep a pussy pump on your pussy. What’s my recommendation? I wouldn’t go longer than one hour. When in doubt, it’s always best to follow the manufacturer’s instructions. Are There Side Effects to Using a Vaginal Pump? In general, pussy pumps are a safe, easy-to-use sex toy with a low risk of injury. As the toy works by increasing blood flow to the area, you may experience flushing, engorgement of the vulva, enlargement of the clitoris, and tingling. These aren’t side effects as much as they’re intended effects from the use of the vaginal pump. The effects should wear off gradually once the pump has been removed. Once blood flow to the area returns to normal, any potential side effects such as numbness, throbbing, or irritation should disappear. If side effects last for longer than two hours, seek medical attention. Why Does the Pussy Pump Hurt When I Apply It? It’s true that for women who are using a pussy pump for the first time, the feeling is not exactly comfortable. The pump should never hurt, however. So why does the vaginal pump hurt when you apply it, even if you’ve only pumped it once or twice? It’s possible that you’ve attached the device too low or too high on your pussy. When you’ve placed the pump too low, it may tug at the sensitive skin which surrounds the anus. When you’ve placed the pump too high, it can tug at pubic hair or the excess skin that’s common in the upper pubic area. If it begins to hurt, slowly release the suction from the pump. Then reattach it to your pussy after adjusting it slightly up or down, and begin to suction again. What Size Vaginal Pump Should I Buy? Just like penis pumps, pussy pumps also come in a variety of sizes. This is because every woman is different, so there’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all pump device. But how do you know what size to buy? The easiest way is to measure yourself and then compare it to the cup size of the devices you’re considering. Using a cloth measuring tape, measure from the top of the clitoral hood to the start of the perineum (just below the vaginal opening). You’re unlikely to find a pump cup that will match your measurements exactly. But this will give you a good idea of what pumps will work for you while you’re shopping. How Can I Tell If My Pussy Pump Is Too Big/Small? Speaking of size, let’s discuss the signs to look for in a pump cup that’s not the right size for you. The cup of the device should fit over the clitoris and the vulva. You’ll know the cup is too big if it covers your anus, either completely or partially. A too-big cup can be uncomfortable and even painful as it tugs on the delicate skin around your anus. It may also not suction properly, which means you won’t get the friction you’re looking for. You’ll know the cup is too small if it doesn’t fit over the clitoris and vulva, or if it fills with air too quickly. When the cup is too small, it’s impossible for the edges to seal properly. After just a few pumps, the cup will fill with air, and the level of suction will be negligible. Conclusion Vibrators and dildos have made a name for themselves in the sex toy industry. But even less conventional sex toys — like pussy pumps — can be used in the bedroom with incredible, mind-blowing results. The vaginal pump is an underrated sex toy with a lot to offer. It’s not only easy to use and relatively inexpensive, but the sensations it creates are beyond comprehension. 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